Women in Therapy

Women in Therapy will help all therapists examine the biases and assumptions that adversely affect the treatment of women. Such an examination is a prerequisite for compassionate and informed clinical practice.

Women in Therapy is a bold look at women and the psychotherapists who work with them. Dr. Harriet Lerner carefully critiques and challenges traditional notions of female psychology and elucidates the ways in which our unconscious fears, wishes, and assumptions about women continue to distort our theories and clinical practice. She offers new perspectives on age-old "women's problems" such as struggles with dependency, anger, depression, and guilt and she provides detailed and lucid case studies to illustrate how theory can be transformed into effective therapeutic work.





 

 

 

 








In Part I Harriet focuses on:

  • The earlier years of development.
  • Reformulates the overextended concept of genital inferiority.
  • Presents alternative psychoanalytic perspectives on the devaluation of women and female sexuality.
  • Identifies the complex unconscious factors that may lead both sexes to cling to traditional sex-role stereotypes, patriarchal solutions, and phallocentric views.
In Part II: Dr. Lerner details her views on:
  • The adaptive and pathogenic aspects of sexrole stereotypes.
  • The reformulation of diagnostic criteria for the hysterical personality.
  • The key errors of omission in psychotherapeutic work with women related to therapists' unconscious absorption of cultural norms.
  • The advantages as well as the anxieties associated with choosing a woman therapist.
  • The myth of "female dependency," with implications for therapeutic interventions.
  • The complex connections between anger, depression, and women's relationship orientation.
  • The role of self-sacrifice and self-betrayal (and the concomitant loss of self-esteem) in female depression.
  • The importance of facilitating connectedness and change in the adult daughter's relationships with both parents.
  • The role of unconscious loyalties and multi- generational guilt in female work inhibitions.
  • The problem of mother-focus and mother-blaming in psychoanalytic theory and practice.
Finally, Lerner examines the feminist psychoanalytic contribution to developmental theory building. With depth and incisiveness, she critiques the psychoanalytic preoccupation with maternal power and describes the conceptual problems that arise when the encapsulated unit of mother and child, or the oedipal triad of mother, father, and child, remains the primary, if not exclusive, framework for observation and theory building. Here Lerner argues for a systems perspective that views female development in light of the reciprocal, circular patterns maintained by all family members. She calls attention to the false dichotomy between intrapsychic and family systems camps and challenges us to move against this polarity in our thinking and clinical work.

Lerner demonstrates a remarkable ability to interweave feminist, psychoanalytic, and family systems perspectives into theory-building and clinical practice. Her work, which spans a period of fifteen years, helps us to view women through a wide-angle lens, with an eye toward identifying the intrapsychic, familial, and cultural factors that thwart the differentiation of self and impede the ability to love and work.

Praise

"The cover should be stamped in bold letters: Not for professionals only. I recommend it highly, for all women and for the men who care for and about them."
      - Maggie Scarf
       Author of Intimate Matters

“Harriet Lerner writes with startling clarity and power …Here is a rich store of clinical wisdom – exciting, engaging, inspiring, distressing, challenging, and satisfying. Every woman client can hope that her therapist has discovered Dr. Lerner’s work.”
      - Marjorie Bayes, Ph.D.
       Coeditor Women and Mental Health

“Dr. Lerner skillfully interweaves theoretical and clinical material on female psychology. This is a major contribution to our understanding of the parameters and direction of the field.”
      - Carol C. Nadelson, M.D.
       Past President, American Psychiatric Association





Books & Audio

The Dance of Fear

The Dance of Anger

The Dance of Connection

The Mother Dance

The Dance of Intimacy

The Dance of Deception

Life Preservers: Good Advice When You Need it Most

Women in Therapy

Franny B. Kranny There's a Bird in Your Hair!

What's So Terrible About Swallowing an Apple Seed?


Sounds True Tapes

On Intimacy

On Anger

On Mothers & Daughters

Food, Sex & Relationships

 



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