Welcome
to the website of author and clinical psychologist, Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. Harriet is one of the world's most loved and respected relationship experts. She is best known for her clarity in helping us to change our own part in relationships that are stuck in too much distance, intensity and pain. Harriet is the author of many best-selling books, including The Dance of Anger which has changed the lives of millions of women and men worldwide. Her most recent book is The Dance of Fear: Rising Above Anxiety, Fear and Shame to Be Your Best and Bravest Self.

Learn more about Harriet's books, her personal and professional background, and upcoming speaking events. You can also download a Reader's Guide, or tools to start your own discussion group. Join our mailing list to stay current on upcoming news and events.

Check Harriet's appearances
for fall and winter events
in the national press, on the radio and in a city near you. Other speaking engagements are being scheduled. See Harriet's upcoming Appearances.

"Powerful
mind-medicine
and a thoroughly
enjoyable read."
- Martha Beck,
O Magazine

"Like a family
heirloom,
The Dance of Anger
can be passed
from generation
to generation."
- Peggy Papp,
M.S.W., the
Ackerman Institute
for Family Therapy